Shape-wear: OK…I call this false advertising! Yes the tummy tucking and thigh thinning/smoothing things CAN make you look better in a dress or in slacks. BUT…you STILL have to get nekkid! And if you wear shape-wear on a first or .. the first few… dates…and you have yet to get nekkid… Don’t you think you might be setting someone up for a bit of a surprise? I certainly have body issues. There are parts of myself I don’t like. While I don’t let them hang out for everyone to see…because I don’t want to be arrested…I just don’t try to hide my lumps and bumps. They are there … and someone gots to deal with them eventually. I mean…if you use a bun lifting and smoothing type pantie…and then…you take OFF the pantie…and your ASS falls on the floor and appears to have divots all over…well now. I just think that is not fair to the potential partner
Make-up: OK, so I am so guilty of utilizing makeup. It makes me feel pretty. My lips look larger and more inviting. My smile more wide. My dark circles … poof…gone! But I don’t remake my face or look. I do try to keep it honest. Women who overdo…and look 100% different after putting on makeup….whY???? don’t you know you are already lovely???
Profile Pictures: I will sound like a snob. But really folks…don’t you want to put your best face forward? Smile pleasantly. Try NOT to look threatening! Take off the mirrored sun glasses! You don’t look cool… Like…wash your hair, and brush it! Consider your audience…are you a ruffian-like-dude? And now…you are sending a “Hi!…nice pic” to some suburban-like gal? CLEAN UP! Make yourself presentable.
On-Line-Dating Hellos/intros: WTF guys! Why! Why! WHY! are you starting a conversation with: “here is a picture of my penis!” I don’t fukking care! I know what a penis looks like. Seriously! Most of us do! My other favorite intro is, “How’s your clit?” Because…I’m gonna tell you … how my clit is doing … today. First one I’ll notify! Guys…feel free to lead with, “Hi lovely lady.” “Hey beautiful” “I like your photo, you have a great smile” While those intros seem canned…and they are….they are MUCH more likely to garner a response! Ask us what we like. Tell us what you like (and I am NOT talking SEX ppl!)
OK: thank’s for listening!
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Dating profiles: Amusing reading. I was just telling M the reason I looked at his profile, after he said he like my pic, was that he had a tractor as one of his main pictures. It was definitely different than the FISH all the guys seemed to be so proud of!
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