Best Friends…?

Not sure how to feel about this: So apparently my two best female friends have know, for almost 2 years, that DH has been unhappy.  Both of them have tried (in round about ways) to tell me this.  OK…so………

I do understand they felt they needed to keep DH’s confidences and he (according to both) said not to tell me.  I get that.  But here is what I don’t get…they are my nearest and dearest friends.  WHY THE FUK didn’t they say something clear and concise to me?  Why try to go around and hedge words and such?  To spare the man who is not talking to his wife (their best friend) and possibly clue me into what is happening?  I’m sorry but confidences only go so far.  If they didn’t want to break his confidence IMHO they should have said “DH…man up because if you don’t then I am telling your wife about what is going on. You aren’t being fair or right!” or…something like that.

Like I said, I do get why they didn’t say anything…I do.  But I cannot help but feel a bit hurt that they have known there is a problem for a long time and only tried to tell me about it … sort of… but not directly…to PROTECT DH!

FUK THAT!