Things ya learn by doing…wrong

So as we all know I am now divorced.  Ex and I did it on our own.  We didn’t really have any difficulty and it just was a HELLA lot cheaper this way.

Now…here is something I have learned.  We agreed, in the paperwork, that Ex would sell the house.  That is what he was gonna do, at first, but then changed hi mind.  Because we came to an agreement over what he would give me … we never changed the paperwork.  We never changed it because we trust each other in this and know that we won’t fuk with the other person’s money.

Well…WE won’t… but the fukking mortgage company will!

Because it says Ex will SELL the house they are balking at refinancing it…to get me off the deed and stuff.

So NOW I am trying to simply consult a lawyer and see what is recommended.

I may have to addend the divorce papers, get more signatures and shit… and wait a few more weeks.

If I do I do.

I swear, who-da thunk?  OK, a lawyer mighta thunk… but that thunk woulda been hella expensive!