OK, so who doesn’t like a pretty man? It is always nice to be complimented by someone you feel is more attractive than you are. I like to look…and if Chris Helmsworth were to arrive in my bed I would NOT kick him out. If anyone knows Chris and he would be interested…hook a sister up! But I am actually really attracted, personally, to down to earth men. I prefer them tall but that isn’t a deal breaker if they aren’t. What I like is real: Real face, real body, real emotions.
So I am on a couple dating websites. And there are a LOT of really odd people out there. But there are some nice people as well. Got to talking with someone last evening. He is most definitely what I would call a red-neck. Truck driver. And he wears his age on his face and body. And he is funny! Divorced at 55 yrs old and he is now 57. Has a large family and most kids are grown (one 19 y/o daughter at home) We spoke this morning on the phone and he is very nice. Mature.
Gonna meet him on Friday, after his shift, for a late breakfast and a face-to-face get to know ya.
I’m not interested in forever. But he seems like a good man who I might be able to spend time with on multiple occasions. We shall see.
EDIT: met this gentleman for lunch today. He seems very nice. And very funny. We are both interested to see each other again.
Taking with my house-mate J. I told her I’m a bit frightened…i don’t trust my own judgement. I’m concerned I can’t tell the good guys from the bad. But I do want to be open to opportunity. J said… I can only base my judgement on what is presented… And when meeting new people we all tend to put our best foot forward. If this guy isn’t as he seems… It is on his head… Not mine. Tread carefully and be open to new people. If they treat with honesty it is a win win. If they don’t… Then the failure is really on their shoulders… That is a hard concept to wrap my brain around… But she is right. So… I’m gonna trust ( and maybe I’m niave) and see where this may take me.
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